This week, I decided to try and meet my neighbors as I very recently moved less than two months ago. I know a few neighbors from walking my dog, and one of my managers lives in my complex (lol). I realized that if there was an emergency, I don't know how I could turn to or who is even in my general area. This started off pretty slow as it is difficult to break the ice and talk to new people. I don't want to bother my neighbors and I'm also cautious due to past experience. Something that really helps in meeting your community is taking frequent walks around your neighborhood, as I do several times a day with my dog. I've started to notice the same people around the same times. My dog has been a great conversation starter, although hes talkative so he scares some people off. I also found it easier if my partner or someone I know is with me when I meet someone new. It takes away some anxiety. my complex's office occasionally holds raffles but I think the clubhouse here should be utilized to be more community focused.
I meet three neighbors this week, not including everyone I said hello to (just saying good morning everyday could lead to an eventual relationship!) The first one is an older lady who goes outside to smoke often, her name is Liz. I don't know much else yet but hopefully she will be nice! The other two were working on a car outside, I've seen them do this before but never said hello. I said hello and my dog barked so they asked if he was tiger, and another neighbor walking by laughed and said he was actually a lion. It was a very sweet interaction and I'm excited to meet more of my neighbors and maybe get to know them better. They are all older than me, but they could still be resources and maybe I can ask my office if I can put up a community board or a space for people to leave old things and take stuff that got left there, like a reuse station. Overall, I really want to find more ways to get involved with my community as I now recognize it's value and importance, and how difficult it may be to know your community in our type of society.